Sunday, July 3, 2011

NEVER QUIT.....



Honestly I have no idea where should I start with this blog? But still I’m confident that never ending lines I can write on these words - “NEVER QUIT” :)


3 Years Back, PUNE - 2008
I was in PUNE 3 years back when I was playing miserably terrible with my life having immature mind set. I won’t go in detail but I had been crazy for girl who probably never liked me just bcoz of immature deals I exhibited on times. I conferred with one of my school friends Vishant Shah which could’ve helped me in making it work. Vishant also known as Jack - was always genius and awfully positive man I have ever seen. He had key for every lock – solution for every problem; rather he also knew when to rupture the lock if keys doesn’t work anymore. He always used to say “Life is just a game of waiting for right moment to act”. There were lots of positive deals which could be learnt from him starting from Professional issues to Personal ones. But the only learning which set up unconditionally to my soul is “NEVER QUIT”.


Life is full of problems and without problems life is not beautiful. If u don’t know darkness of life you can’t realize the beauty of Brightness. There are always 2 choices for any critical situation in our life – 0 or 1. Well known binary form where 0 says Escape/Accept and 1 says Fight. Sometimes when you try to resolve problems it puts you in more troubles and you really don’t comprehend it. Sometimes you keep fighting for years and still you remain there only. Sometimes you loose more in fighting rather than you could have in accepting. But the day u accept/Escape – Fight is over and one more entry of Compromise in your life. I never say Compromises are not good, but one should always keep fighting for and as per his beliefs. Sometimes you may keep experiencing that it’s not working; However - The only Universal rule that must work was “NEVER QUIT”.

I am big fan of WWE championships on Ten Sports and I never miss JOHN CENA who is the most likable WWF champion so far - Loved by everyone. I have enjoyed lots of his fights and only thing I could grab is “He simply NEVER QUITs”. The one who NEVER QUIT – DOES WIN at last.

This also keeps me reminding the climax scene from Matrix – Revolution. Neo keeps getting up again and again even he’s brutally hit by Agent Smith. NEO simply NEVER QUITs for what he believes and what he choose :)

Bottom line is - I firmly believe “NEVER QUIT” :)


However this blog is also about other side of “NEVER QUIT”. Some days back I read GTALK status message on one of the most grown-up and brightest fellow of my college – Rushin Shah who’s amongst toppers of the Nirma University 2007. Status Message said “Try, Try and Try again – then quit. There’s no need to be damn fool about it.” I really wanted to talk on this with him for hours and I could have - but I can’t just push on my beliefs to others. I simply put his status message on corner of my mind for a while and continued with work that day.

The million dollars Question is – Was he right on his words? Can fools never win? Is it only madness to NOT QUIT?

The turning point of this Blog is – Vishant Shah himself. One, whom I believed and learnt from blindly, quit his battle last month. When I met him in PUNE, he was in strong relationship with her girl since 4 years. I met him after 3 years in his engagement but she was not THE ONE. When I asked him “Why??”, he said that he tried a lot but it didn’t work for inter cast marriage from her family. Family Emotions came in between too which ended up all the belief he was fighting for. I had very short discussion over this with my utmost disbelief cum shock of what he did and last I heard from him was “This is life”.

Still I believe teacher may get destroyed over time but teaching and learning never. I can’t quit my Belief and I won’t.

It's just I have question nurturing up in my mind - Does EMOTIONs really break our belief? Will it break mine? Is this life? :)

6 comments:

  1. The pain I have known many will never feel. I would not wish it on anyone. However no matter how much I have gone through I will be stronger in the end.

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  2. never quit is a gud thought n u shuld never...bt situation is nt in our cntrl....it is said tht ppl r nt bad bt situation makes thm bad!!!

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  3. @Vishant: I heard what i wanted to from you...
    "It's true, that in the end, you are stronger... :)" In-fact now each step of ur life are the steps which will make you the most beautiful person in the world....

    I really never have doubted your beliefs and will never do...in-fact u've ever been best part f my life as friend :-)

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  4. I too have quitted many times in life not because I didn't want to fight but after doing so many fights I realized that they were making me stronger but they weren't good for either me or others. Sometimes its really good to let it go; I won't say quit but just let it go.

    Its perfectly fine not to have the same person in your life with whom you've seen future dreams; its perfectly fine to have a life without all our beliefs. Life is just plain/simple thing & we should also try to make it the same; then why should we fight/struggle for beliefs & this or that.

    Just be chilless...

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  5. I am sure you know what deadlocks are being from I.T. Background. I believe in such Situations it is wiser to Quit than waste time. For Example

    Situation: Two Friends like the same girl and the girl likes neither of them

    BOY 1: I will never quit pursuing this girl no matter what

    BOY 2: I will never Quit untill this girl agrees to my Proposal

    GIRL: I will never quit my current Boyfriend.

    Its a dead lock situation. and i believe people are wasting time and resources here. ITs better to quit sometimes.

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