I loved Call Girl

Isn’t it interesting title? Those who agree can continue and those who doesn’t strictly leave right at this word – because this gonna be really interesting journey for those who finds interest in mature talk.

Recently I was sitting on my business with my partner who’s married since 7 years. Normally late night we got customers for CONDOMs at our medical (I have my medical shop and that’s what my business is apart from my job). We were about to close the shop and from nowhere a lady came.

Bhavin (my business partner): Yes please.
Lady: CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ME A CONDOM?

I almost was about to say WHATTTTTTTT?. I have seen it few movies (namely I could remember KHWAHIS) where Lady goes to buy CONDOM but never occurred to me in real life. I was dumb and thoughtless that time. I just let Bhavin to handle that customer. She asked for few flavors and Bhavin chatted with her about quality of different brands. Finally she went away with ManForce chocolate flavored condoms(this is the latest flavor for those who doesn’t have idea about it). This is where our talk on my love started which I never thought would be published version of blog.

I simply asked: “Isn’t she dare girl? “
Bhavin: Yes she is. But, she’s call girl as well.
I said...whoever she is - I JUST LOVED HER (Don’t know for what reason, I just love anything I see new, strange or different).

I have been always open thinker about SEX and anything pertaining to this topic. I love talking about it, I love thinking about it and I am loving writing about it.

Our chitchat continued….....
Bhavin: There’s nothing to love her about. But there’s lot to sex her about. She is dirty girl – so stop thinking about her.

This is where I lost my mind. If she slept with few guys (I don’t know its true or not) for any reason that may be she’s helpless or may be she’s doing it for her personal ENJOYMENT - SHE IS DIRTY and you(BHAVIN) who enjoyed with lots of girls in college playing with their emotions - is civilized and cultured sophisticate guy. Isn’t it NOT FAIR?. It’s this society who has made it this way. Girls are highly vulnerable to SEX. If Girl makes sex with any guy- she is BITCH / Prostitute and Boys do it – they are 100% MEN.WHAT the F*&K is THIS?.

Moreover - There are lots of things about SEX which our society thinks as Dirty, shameful and Taboo – that people of this society embarrassed to do it(I don’t know how many of you feels disgust while reading this if you are also product of this society).

Bhavin: They don’t embarrass to do it, but for them they consider it as private interacting and for some it’s sacred part of Relationship.
JESS: Bullshit. Lack of privacy does not equal to SANCTITY. Most of our worst doings are taken in private and we normally save our only best behavior for public display. Isn’t it true? And she did ask for Condom in open - that is not fair enough for you.
Bhavin: But, there should be some set of limit when it comes to sexuality in this society. And this call girl is doing it for what? Money or fun? Do u even know that?
JESS: I don’t think sadder than “Man/Woman feeling they’d like to experience something” and hold back because they think, what they’ve dreamt of, fantasized about would violate “Limitations of society”. I believe is that lady did it even if it for fun, it’s out of this society’s product environment. She has her own way to say “F#&K OFF” to society, she doesn’t care.
Bhavin: Your society is not product of you; you are product of your society.
JESS: Wrong. Fact is - I don’t want to be product of my Society; I want society to be product of me. (Anyone remembered DEPARTED?)
Bhavin: you can’t.
JESS: May be – But I love those who are now for some reason not product of this society and that’s why I loved that Lady.
Bhavin: You are getting mad for no reason for her.
JESS: Okay, I have one question- how many girls you had sex with in your life?
Bhavin: say 15-20 girls, so what?
JESS:Still you are respectable guy of your society just because what you did is either known to you and me OR those foolish girls who you were with.
Bhavin: Are you comparing me with her?
JESS: No. Actually there’s no comparison  - she is doing what she is not ashamed of at least.

NEW Customer (male): 1 KAMASUTRA LONG LASTING Milega?

This is where we ended up with our conversation abruptly. I don’t know I made right comments or Arguments in better words or not. But I argued for what I believe. There might be and must be more/most people opposing my disagreements – but that should not change my opinion and will not......

THRILL of life - Get busy living or Get busy dying...

After a long time I get time from hectic (enjoyable though) schedule to write about which I thought of long back. It’s about a time when I first time saw a movie “Shawshank Redeemption” and heard a single statement which came out as title of this blog – “Get busy living or Get busy dying”.
This is about you, me and everyone who have joined some organization recently/few years back, leaving the comfort of your homes (or in some cases discomfort), to become something in your life. I am sure it feels boring to some fellows and for others it has been exciting to move towards achieving goals.

But Question to those who are excited towards goals is – forever? Till the end of life??

There is always a time in life when person is truly overjoyed – THRILLED in better words. U say it first day in new school/college or Organization - when you were getting ready, you felt ecstasy in your heart. Hell lot of Curiosity about new things coming a ways and enliven to unfold folded things. It’s thrill which I call as THE THRILL within we all that makes us feel truly ALIVE every day. To ask you is – how will you keep this THRILL shining? Or to put it another way, how to be happy most - if not all the time?

Where do these THRILL comes from? I think we all born with THRILL in us. Little children have a million THRILLS when little chocolate or toy can make them jump. They get THRILLS from creaky swings in the park. They do a daily countdown for birthday party – several months in advance – just for the day they will cut their own birthday cake.People running here and there for daily bread and I can see is only “THRILLS” keeping them feel alive.

But when I see older people, the THRILL is difficult to find. Recently I went to barber shop where I met one OLDER man who almost had experience of ~70-75 years life. It pinched my heart when I could not see this THRILL in that DUDE. I could hear from him that “he has lived enough and now he was ready to fly away leaving beautiful life gifted by GOD”. That said – now he does not love his life. In-fact as we age, the THRILL fades. People whose THRILL has faded too much are dull, dejected, aimless and bitter.

I did not get chance to ask why his THRILL is lost to that OLD guy, but I could only say him “You have not completed century Sir-ji”. Intentionally I used word: Sir-ji – I must mention. This was all I could do on that moment. It also reminded me Kareena in Jab we Met - in the first half vs the second half. That is what happens when the THRILL is lost. Instantly I asked myself if it will happen to me also. How would I save my THRILL? And all I come out with finest answers to this biggest question of my/your/everyone’s life.

Answer:
THRILL is like open FLAME. You have to feed it continuously and you have to guard against storms. To feed – we all have to have goals/never ending hope/unbreakable spirit. Try for it; try for it until you have it. However, never keep your goal to achieve something rather always have goal to do better every time u put new try. It is human nature when he gives try and cannot achieve fruitful out of it, he gets tired and fears to put new try again – but they normally forget is the point where they feel tired, they are losing their THRILL; they are cutting down their THRILL and why to do that?Just because they are tired? I used word Unbreakable SPIRIT – nobody born with it, It’s we who can nurture this SPIRIT. It’s our positive thinking; it’s our attitude that can change it. Few years back I got one SMS which is more worthy than you expect it to be: “If you want to achieve something which u never had, you have to do SOMETHING you never did”. This SOMETHING is nothing but giving a new try which u never did in past. NEW that said Complete NEW.

Success is to put a new try, strive, improve and achieve next level. Success is not Company paying you 7 lac per annum, neither its buying car nor house. Do you really believe buying Bungalows/Car/7 lac package is the purpose of life? If that was the case, Bill gates won't be working hard to make a better Windows, as he already have billions and billions of dollars. Neither Shahrukh nor Aamir would be working to get new challenging roles. Why do they do it? What makes them come to work everyday? They do it because it makes them feel ALIVE and they do not want to lose THRILL of life. They want to be busy in being ALIVE not being NON-LIVING. Just getting better from current levels feels good. You already know that you cannot become Tendulkar still you play cricket to achieve next level of expertise. Striving for that next level is most, most and super most important. Goal is to achieve next level in career, academic or any activity u take on hand – in short.

One more thing about feeding THE THRILL - don't take life seriously. I learned this from one Yoga Guru. When I used to go Gym 6 months back, my yoga teacher used to make students laugh during classes using dirty jokes(Non-veg jokes in better word ;)). One student asked her if these dirty jokes would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said - don't be serious,All you want to achieve from Yoga in the end is happiness and that's what my jokes are doing.

Normally people take it on serious track, when somebody criticizes their creation. My closest friend named Deepen (Don’t open your eyes wide Deepen if you are reading ;) :P), normally criticize or gets angry when I do not play TT well. He neither likes my service nor the way I copy/adopt other’s playing style. But will that anger or criticism break my spirit of enjoying TT? No – never. This criticism will not/must not blow my THRILL up. As I said may be I cannot be Deepen(Tendulkar) but I will reach my next level.

Eventually - It’s common human nature of not able to see good going of others (not talking about you Deepen – Relax, if you are reading :P). Today I write something, they will like it but they will also get jealous how I couldn’t write such things. They will start making criticism to overcome their jealousy (to strive for better criticism is also common human nature now a days :P :D ;) ). Some will say it’s copied from somewhere – he cannot write this and I will Question myself – did I really write that bad? I will be serious losing my THRILL and will write better but again I will have is Criticism. Normally we get dual opinions on our actions (it’s about all activities we do – Drawing, joking, writing, daily fun-masti, Work at office or anything). There is plenty of praise; there is intense criticism as well. My/Your BOSS will clap for good work and will condemn if we did it wrong. Be sincere towards your work but don’t hinder your spark by getting serious about it like “ohhhhh god my boss dint like it, what will happen in my appraisal?” – Damn f#&k it. If we will take it all seriously, how will we move forward? Or rather, how will we live? Where is our personal enjoyment? Life is never meant to be taken seriously. Life is very short if u really can see it. Start countdown Nowwwwwww. Get busy living or get busy dying. Final call is - BE HAPPY GO PERSON for all time.

Inspired from Chetan Bhagat's speech: jESS.

To be continued in Next Blog….

CONVERSATION with GOD : 1

Reading has imparted a portion of my life and it continues with highest interest when I come across Book with utmost wisdom.

Let me begin with THE BOOK – Conversation with God – was THE INTERNATIOAL BESTSELLER of 1997.

“CONVERSATION with GOD” is not a thrilling masterpiece but sure it is Magical work of genius. It has all as content which may create magic in your life helping you changing your attitude towards it moreover the way you look/think/talk/act/react towards being including yourself.

Some FACTS about THE BOOK:
1. Book really needs reader with gigantic mind to capture at least 10% image of it.
2. Book is not breathtaking or exciting but it is Awe-inspiring.
3. Uncommon dialogues which never ever had been found before.
4. This book is for reader with Open Mind, Limitless curiosity and severe desire to seek truth about life.

PLOT :
Suppose you could make GOD part of your everyday life and you could ask questions about LOVE, FAITH, LIFE, DEATH, GOOD, EVIL – and God answers in a way that you could truly understand (or try to understand until you understand).

Neale Donald Walsch(author of book) asks questions which we may have encountered frequently but never cared to find answers nor we give thought on them. Some people may have tried and never got a way around.
E.g. If Sex is so powerful and magnificent, why it’s regarded as shameful act?

After writing down all of his questions, he heard a voice over his right shoulder say: "Do you really want an answer to all these questions or are you just venting?" Though when he turned around he saw no one there, Walsch felt answers to his questions filling his mind and decided to write them down. The ensuing dialogue became the Conversations with God books.

THE ANSWERS to the questions – will amaze you with complex paradoxes that make perfect sense, profound logic and astounding truths. Here are answers that bring together as one the deeper meaning of all beliefs and traditions. Here are answers which’ll change you and your life.


GLITCHES:
Some people may found some concepts repeated over and again. What I feel of this repetition is just a connection to support truth explained. Moreover, The Language of the book is far sturdy than you found in any hand-on novel - which needs high concentration of reader.

THE BOOK supposedly is biased in leading the reader to a specific point of view contradicting THE BIBLE. The book asks controversial questions about sexuality and moral issues, perhaps leading children in a particular direction about important social issues with which certain people disagree.Hence, there are instances where you might not able to catch the delivered responses and there are instances where you may reject them or disregard them – HOWEVER truth is not easy to accept what I believe is 


WHY TO READ?
"To live life with highest and purest truth" is single and enough reason - I'll say.

FINAL WORD:
Believe or not above verdict is much more worthy than you ever can expect it to be.
Have some precious time for this master work. You won’t regret it – if you seek for sense of life. I have already started with Conversation with God: II 