Eventually people hits around situation when
personal EGO seems more practical than logical situation. It’s been long time
getting subject to write on; the hunger for writing something was fulfilled
when ………
3-4
years ago,
“I’ve EGO problem and get angry quickly
normally” said Deepen.
What
the fuck is EGO? - I used to think and how does it make
person Angry??
Oblivious of giving denotation of this word doesn’t
mean I don’t buy it – it’s just being unable to comprehend it which may’ve kicked
me out of INDUSA during interview probably too 4 years back.
July
3rd, 2012 – 9:30 PM
Amazing Spiderman wasn’t bad option but didn’t worth
200 buck candidly. It came out as having another movie plan and as
Pratik(Gotiyo) had been to Ahmedabad; I did not deny even if it was 9-30 show.
I could have enjoyed movie more though; had I been 10-12 years younger than
what I was today ;) :) We (Deepen, Poonam, Gotiyo, Srikanth,
Jainam, Jinal etc etc) got separated after show ~12-00 and accompanied by Jinal in his car I
asked Jinal to drive me (till Deepen’s place) as FZ was missing .
“I am not dropping you home….” said
Jinal unknowing of me wanting to drop by Deepen’s room.
“Deepen’s room sir”….I thought WTF :P
I saw everyone getting dispersed and we were in
Jinal’s Esteem.
Back story in noon was - Jinal’s being tired, slept
and waking up in theatre without having dinner made him hungry at 12-00 like
anything; and why not? No every man in world can follow Ramdev baba :D We moved towards Honest Resz to get something
packed and called up Deepen/shrikanth if they wanted to have anything. Unfortunately
to fortune - they never deny and our 30 paisa call was worth to Jain Bhaaji and
1 Cock for them (Oops its Coke) ;) :D After
ordering Jain Bhaji, Pulao , we started chitchatting about business that Honest
and Ashok Pan Parlor makes a day. Impressive it makes!!!
I
Heard…
While returning to Deepen’s place; I heard
interesting lines spoken by Jinal..
“If this guys gonna stop, we not going to….we should
not….etc etc” he talked about Combing
night Police guys who stops every little vehicle after 12:00 and do their
verification.
Police did not stop us that time anyways and we
reached before Deepen, Pratik and Srikanth safely.
Here
and there….
They finished food hounding on car itself chirping
about one after another taking someone granted and fuss-fussing on each of them
who weren’t there even ;) It’s normal for people to talk back of person among
friends and creating or altering image mostly in negative way. People don’t
talk good about others now days. Bitter truth I would say – People remembers
people’s off-putting actions so easily and it’s hard for them to remember to
good ones which may create respect :P :D. Some said very beautifully – “Being
good person is very tough coz it’s like being Goal Keeper; They never remember
how many u saved, rather they always recall how many you missed”. We took one by one many of us for
backstabbing – and I started realizing I would have been also part of such
discussions among them sometime :D :D :D
In such discussions - Some stay neutral; some shows
smartness; some remains truthful; some acquires silence; some are there to
satisfy their EGO :) :) :)
Bole to personally lai le che……
It was worth noting caption – “Dosti me daraar nahi
he….Daraar me dosti he” :) Thanks to Srikanth…..
I remain silent mostly now a days anyways :)
Lucky I’m….
Story
Starts now…
Foremost discussion came to end with Shrikanth’s
utter of desire of eating Pastry at 1-30 o’clock. I already had 2 calls from
home If I was going back soon at home. I thought it won’t take more than 30
minutes and will reach home by 2-00. But……
Kicking off TGB, having Pastry and finishing up took
more than 1 hour and we headed back towards the place from where we kicked off.
TGB….Pakvaan Cross Road….US Pizza….Iscon Cross
roads…..Left…Dominoz….and there we are…..
They were waiting for us the way hungry Lion waits
for their hunt. About 6 police guys were on duty for night vehicle checkups due
to recent kidnappings taken place in different schools (I did not know). They
made us stop our car and Jinal stopped the car. This was the obedient mistake :(
Quite
Obvious…
Quite obvious it is; when 5 homogeneously aged guys
are grouped in car it always sounds sneaky. Thank god none of us was single
girl ;) :D It would have looked freaky. We did not look for option other than
coming out of car and do as they order. They acted upon duty by checking that
we are neither intoxicated nor kidnappers ;) :D Thanks to Shrikant not having
had drink before moving to TGB. I was calm; Pratik can be blown away with
little bridge; Deepen was cool but confident; Shrikant was smart – But Jinal
was Egoistic ….Fuck!!!
Duty says check out Clean hands; Smell People;
Verify License; Observe Innocence - Let them GO if 3 out of 4 gets satisfied !!
Hands were clean; none was drunk; License was
available – I thought we are good to go…..but Innocence missed :( :( :(
I’m not sure what frame of mind perceived Jinal that day – he was truthful but
out of mind. So far I’ve seen him as smartest person to handle the things
wisely; but today….
“Licence Apo..” said that guy…
“Lo ne…Aa rahyu license…biju kai check
karvu che?” Jinal overstated with attitude of most decent family son who was
stopped for verification as if he’s terrorist. It looked to me as if something going
to be interesting….I was ready ;)
“License Original kya che?” Guy verified
and responded spotly.
“Duplicate License che….Ghare thi lai
aavu Original kaheta hoy to…” He’s getting mad I thought; but he was driving
car 5 mins before; he was answerable anyways :( ;) :)
“Haan lai aavo…” Guy with slim body and
Khakhi wears responded to Jinal’s attitude cum EGO!!
“Biju kai saaheb?...”
“Car papers che Gaadi ma?” he
interviewed…
Jinal probably knew that Car papers were not
available still he asked Deepen and Pratik to check out the front car box to
get the papers out. As it had to; it ended up with CLEAN HANDS with CLEAN BOX
:D :D :D Jinal had no other option than getting papers and license from home.
Sadly – it was 3 O’Clock :( :(
Allowing people in their fifties sleeping at
midnight to get disturbed at 3’00 oclock was not a wise conclusion. But it just
ended up that way….which in turn made Jinal more annoyed and angry. This was
pure experienced Butterfly effect - I must say. Initial event (first answer)
took it forward as if it was Chaos Theory occurring where destiny was to get
locks unlocked for Papers and License at midnight.
Jinal with Pratik were out of AIR and I along with
Deepen and Shrikanth started conversation with all of ~6 Police guys. We started
with exchanging names, doing done’s and to our fortune it shifted up to
offering of Tea and Coffee. I sought to be witty and whelming by asking for
Bournvita – did I so ;) :)
But this conversation actually started putting up
meaning when Deepen pointed out towards a car where one of their guys allowed another
BMW to pass away without any check….
“E bhai ne bahu harakh hato Papers leva
javano…License dekhadvano…”, “Hu tamne aaram thi java det, jo emne sarkhi rite
vaat kari hot to..”, “ame koi ne rokta j nathi…aa to khali check karvu pade…”,
“Report dekhadvana hoy etle….”, “tamne rokya kem ke tame youngsters cho…”, “ame
khali Drink karyu che ke nai etlu j check karta hoiye che….”, “emno tone and
javabo bahu uncha hata…” etc etc.
As simple as that – Sometimes Being Humble makes it
easier than satisfying personal EGO :)
Back
Story at 3-30 AM….
Jinal had to seemingly wake his father for papers at
home which again took interesting turn as Papers were not on hand at ParshSaarthi Tower; 10th floor in first building :(:(. Next step was
to collect papers from Office at Manekbaug (Probably) which required Office
Keys. Jinal’s brother came to help along with Pratik and they moved towards
office at 3:30 AM; for us who were innocently mortgaged and waiting for Jinal
coming back with all things needed – except Anger and EGO !!
My mom called up again but this time on Deepen’s
cell with little anger and discontent in her words L
Eventually, I just let it happen whatever was going on. In-fact I was enjoying
such blogging incident after long time. As expected and waited – we saw Jinal’s
CAR returning and we sighed breath of relief (just because we wanted to get
back; we were not afraid of anything at all). Back story said that Pratik was
on the way and to be back soon carried by 80+ Kg figure and original papers along
with; which in fact was not at all needed :) :)
But unneeded things always get carried by people….
Ego – Attitude – Self Respect: A thin line exists between each of them but
normally people ends up converting Attitude and Self Respect into EGO. Jinal
again started to satisfy his EGO by questioning on their duty which later on
started meshing up between Jinal and Head among Six guys. Sometimes it is not
easy to support person under EGO even if he’s true. I could see that Jinal was
not wrong on his part by questioning things; he was trying to make out truthful
state but again with EGO or to satisfy his EGO. In parallel Head of those night
duty guys was also getting more interested in showing off his Ego-Attitude-Power.
Things got worse again and they both ended up sitting in CAR to move for
tolling up and car getting seized by higher authorities :( :(
Ego …Bhai….Ego…have to banne no Ego :D :D :D
Ego …Bhai….Ego…have to banne no Ego :D :D :D
I only was with Jinal among we fives; he did not do
anything wrong, but perhaps time was not correct. I don’t support Jinal’s Ego
but I definitely wanted to be against power show off of Head of those Police
guys. Thankfully, Smart People were around (Deepen and Shrikanth) who made the
situation low soon to make them out of car and do their own business at ~3-40.
Soon Pratik along with Utsav came with papers awaited and we finally planned to
say ALVIDA. To my surprise they did not even look at the papers before we waved
off; they certainly were not waiting for papers as they said earlier :) :)
:D
Arguments started as soon as we set up in car while
returning; Deepen had to start counseling Jinal; Jinal had his own mind frame
that time; Shrikanth was extravagance and Jinal again was fighting back with
partial truth. Sometimes smartness wins over truth attached with EGO; Deepen
and Shrikanth proved it. I remained silently focused on going home ASAP :) Sometimes Silence is more powerful than
anything but “Jab meri baat aati he,
nothing remains powerful” – hahahahahahahahaha :) :)
It was nice Pastry experience….I love to miss it…..I
remember when I reached home it was 4-00; Ego makes it 4-00 :) :) :)
