Destiny...

“Can Destiny Be Changed?”
“Does Destiny Exist?
"OR it’s Just a Word?"

Destiny believers speak that “Person is predefinely intended to something at some place on some time “. Something which is already written and you are merely experiencing it. The only difference is you never going to know what it is going to be. I say “Thank god - Future is unknown” :)

If written destiny exists, then what the life is for? Isn’t life stands for creation rather than just to experience? If future is all written as so called destiny, why do we act? why do we breathe? why do we try? why do we persist? why do we resist? why do we strive? why do we live – in single word ????????

God has provided us with something which is all ours - To create, understand and follow what we want to do about it – “A CHOICE”. Life is always beautiful, as we do not know the future. We never know what’s going to be part of coming tomorrows. It surprises us sometimes with lot of abnormality, mess and bounces and sometimes it keeps you boring as simple as it can. Still, I believe future of person depends on the choices he makes. Heard some day somewhere and I started believing it as so true it seems to be. I have always believed “Our Karma (actions) makes our destiny and it always have had created it since beginning”. There does not exist anything pre-written FATE. Every moment our actions are creating so called Luck or Destiny.


I read lot of responses from the web for my question – Can destiny be changed?

The best answer which keeps everyone in line was – “Even after you have changed your so called destiny - the destiny believers always say that, it is also destiny. Thus, if something happens, that is destiny and again, it is same destiny even if it does not happen. Now you can start pondering whether to believe destiny or not.”

To put it in example,
Well, if you want toast for your breakfast and go to the cupboard and find there is no bread, you could decide that it was your destiny not to have toast for your breakfast that day. If you pop out and buy dome bread and make some toast then did you change destiny? Or was your destiny to have toast anyway?
Destiny and fate is a romantic notion. If you believe in it, then no you cannot change it. It's often a way that we try to rationalize something, good or bad in our lives, that had loads of other factors not have fitted in the way they did, then that good or bad thing wouldn't have happened.

4 years back I read the novel called "The Alchemist" which had strong lines saying,
“The Biggest lie in the world is – At some point of life we lose the control of what is happening to us and our life gets controlled by FATE.”

Needless to say “The Alchemist” was internationally best seller novel. But a novel does not make a life of person rather Life allows person to make choices of creating novel. I am not sure what I read 4 years ago is true or not, but it feels always good to believe in it. Everything what occurs to us can be controlled by us and our series of actions, not FATE.

However, life keeps you twisting and turning with hurricane power over your beliefs when you vigorously think you have figured them out. Isn’t it? People say “God takes exams”:). When you strongly start believing and following something, God starts taking you on Roller costar ride to fight for your belief. Those who lose start believing in FATE and those who keep fighting keep going on.

Question is whose is True belief?

The one’s who never loses and keeps fighting?
Or
The one’s who lose had also the True belief and it’s just he could not fight against it?

Every day I encounter a word called LUCK in my life, which tries to keep proving it's existence. Instances keep on coming across to fulfill it. I am seeing the people who fell apart against destiny. I keep hearing repeatedly “Happens is for good always”. I see often people becoming practical and losing control over their path by changing themselves – that’s what they call it as “Learning of life”.

Honestly speaking, I don’t know where do I stand among all of them, but I keep resisting in believing so called pre-decided written destiny :)

May be “Not Believing in Destiny” is my Destiny – Isn’t it witty? :) :) :)

All is Well :-) :-) :-)

Remember Rancho saying “All Is Well” in 3 –idiots??

“All Is Well” artistically used as tiny relief provoker to the depressing, disturbed and itchy minds in the 3-idiots. At any catastrophic situation what we need is spark which can bloom the flame of upbeat to protect you from any devastation. Compare it with Big Bang which started from tiniest particle called proton and neutron ending up in creation of whole universe. This spark never unravel your predicament but releases energy to fight with them – and to best of the words it creates “All from Nothing” :-) Compare it with Sperm which gets released in millions of numbers but only single of them creates the Human by embodying with another single one. “All From Nothing” :-)

Candidly, “All Is Well” really mechanized to relax your calisthenics mind but for temporary and short term. The fact is All Is Never Well, but one always can make it well. Well word itself starts with ‘we’ depicting if “WE will”  it’s WE’LL -- > WELL :-)

Life never opens up with assurance of giving you best of it. At any point of it, problems are upstanding and without them life is not worthy. The only aspect which has to stand against it is – WE by all means of heart. Besides, everything happens for good and for reason including even those parts of life which we make it happen. Why to afraid of low situations when every problem has n+ 1 solution where n is number of solutions one normally tries and 1 is normally gets missed. One never needs to think why something didn’t work, rather should think of 1 reason why it will and it should work.

It’s all about responding to the life when it puts you in trouble. It’s about fighting. It’s about keep trying and enjoying. It‘s about feeling good out of worst situations. It’s about neither worry nor sorry to life. It’s about strong belief and following the belief strongly. It’s about not loosing your THRILL. It’s about good feel. It’s about It’s about believing in “ALL is WELL”.

It’s about 90:10 rule which says 90% problems are solvable if 10% of your reaction is perfect. It also utters 90% situations of life are not in under your control but 10% of your respond to the situation saves it.

Open heart. Hold it with hand. Tap up. Feel good. Enjoy moments. Cheer memories. Live the present. Hope for coming ups.

That’s called - All Is Well :)

10 . . .

Hope is life. Yes, hope is the driving force and it pushes the life forward and makes the life fruitful and worthiness for living. Positive thinking will enhance the life standards and reduces the stress levels. These following 10 points can help anyone to have a life with full of hope and positive thoughts.


1. Never get despair yourself for every simple defeat and take strong decision to work harder than the previous attempt.



2. Don't be always in a hurry mood, as hurry makes you worry. Have the patience and wait for some more time looking hopefully for the result. Certainly you will get the good result, as per the hard labor put by you.



3. Never show sympathy upon yourself. Instead you make yourself more capable and dependable.



4. Never allow anxiety to overtake you. Develop this type of thinking as, still what I have to do?



5. People around you, are needn't be either your supporters or opposites, your thinking must be in that manner. Moreover they are busy in their daily chores, that point you must ever keep in mind ever.



6. It is very difficult to please everyone always. The quotation is like this: "If you want to please all, you please none".



7. Never afraid of the changes that may occur in the circumstances where you are working but try adjust to them which gives relief from stress and strain.



8. Be of the opinion that you are helping others and not think like that others are utilizing you.



9. Never worry that you are in troubles and there is no way out. But remember the quotation: "Where there is will, there is a way". For every problem, there is a solution.



10. You have got your thinking capacity and you need not depend on others for simple things.




Finally,
Speak to others sincerely and live heart fully. Always laugh with others. Be friendly with others as much as possible. Be plain in your dealings. A sincere person is always liked by others, not serious.