Isn’t it interesting title? Those who agree can continue and those who doesn’t strictly leave right at this word – because this gonna be really interesting journey for those who finds interest in mature talk.
Recently I was sitting on my business with my partner who’s married since 7 years. Normally late night we got customers for CONDOMs at our medical (I have my medical shop and that’s what my business is apart from my job). We were about to close the shop and from nowhere a lady came.
Bhavin (my business partner): Yes please.
Lady: CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ME A CONDOM?
I almost was about to say WHATTTTTTTT?. I have seen it few movies (namely I could remember KHWAHIS) where Lady goes to buy CONDOM but never occurred to me in real life. I was dumb and thoughtless that time. I just let Bhavin to handle that customer. She asked for few flavors and Bhavin chatted with her about quality of different brands. Finally she went away with ManForce chocolate flavored condoms(this is the latest flavor for those who doesn’t have idea about it). This is where our talk on my love started which I never thought would be published version of blog.
I simply asked: “Isn’t she dare girl? “
Bhavin: Yes she is. But, she’s call girl as well.
I said...whoever she is - I JUST LOVED HER (Don’t know for what reason, I just love anything I see new, strange or different).
I have been always open thinker about SEX and anything pertaining to this topic. I love talking about it, I love thinking about it and I am loving writing about it.
Our chitchat continued….....
Bhavin: There’s nothing to love her about. But there’s lot to sex her about. She is dirty girl – so stop thinking about her.
This is where I lost my mind. If she slept with few guys (I don’t know its true or not) for any reason that may be she’s helpless or may be she’s doing it for her personal ENJOYMENT - SHE IS DIRTY and you(BHAVIN) who enjoyed with lots of girls in college playing with their emotions - is civilized and cultured sophisticate guy. Isn’t it NOT FAIR?. It’s this society who has made it this way. Girls are highly vulnerable to SEX. If Girl makes sex with any guy- she is BITCH / Prostitute and Boys do it – they are 100% MEN.WHAT the F*&K is THIS?.
Moreover - There are lots of things about SEX which our society thinks as Dirty, shameful and Taboo – that people of this society embarrassed to do it(I don’t know how many of you feels disgust while reading this if you are also product of this society).
Bhavin: They don’t embarrass to do it, but for them they consider it as private interacting and for some it’s sacred part of Relationship.
JESS: Bullshit. Lack of privacy does not equal to SANCTITY. Most of our worst doings are taken in private and we normally save our only best behavior for public display. Isn’t it true? And she did ask for Condom in open - that is not fair enough for you.
Bhavin: But, there should be some set of limit when it comes to sexuality in this society. And this call girl is doing it for what? Money or fun? Do u even know that?
JESS: I don’t think sadder than “Man/Woman feeling they’d like to experience something” and hold back because they think, what they’ve dreamt of, fantasized about would violate “Limitations of society”. I believe is that lady did it even if it for fun, it’s out of this society’s product environment. She has her own way to say “F#&K OFF” to society, she doesn’t care.
Bhavin: Your society is not product of you; you are product of your society.
JESS: Wrong. Fact is - I don’t want to be product of my Society; I want society to be product of me. (Anyone remembered DEPARTED?)
Bhavin: you can’t.
JESS: May be – But I love those who are now for some reason not product of this society and that’s why I loved that Lady.
Bhavin: You are getting mad for no reason for her.
JESS: Okay, I have one question- how many girls you had sex with in your life?
Bhavin: say 15-20 girls, so what?
JESS:Still you are respectable guy of your society just because what you did is either known to you and me OR those foolish girls who you were with.
Bhavin: Are you comparing me with her?
JESS: No. Actually there’s no comparison - she is doing what she is not ashamed of at least.
NEW Customer (male): 1 KAMASUTRA LONG LASTING Milega?
This is where we ended up with our conversation abruptly. I don’t know I made right comments or Arguments in better words or not. But I argued for what I believe. There might be and must be more/most people opposing my disagreements – but that should not change my opinion and will not......
